Yhem Speaks

It’s been a while since I wrote anything, and I can actually feel it. I have been so busy these past few weeks that I totally forgot about WordPress. Even when I try to write, I feel this small hesitation  like… “hmm, where do I even begin?” but I kept saying I’ll write. Tomorrow or  next week or when I’m in the right mood. You know all those promises we make to ourselves that sound very serious at the time😁… but somehow, time just kept going and we didn’t do anything about it.
Also, it didn’t pause for me to catch up.

Something happened recently, nothing too big, just one of those small things that can annoy you if you let it and in my case, I let it. I reacted in that moment and made a decision immediately. No pause, no “let me think about this,” just straight action.
At that time, it felt right.
The next day, I just looked at it and shook my head. Not because it was the worst decision, but because I knew if I had just waited patiently … calmed down a bit… I would have handled it differently.

Then, that’s when it just clicked.  Wisdom is not only knowing what to do, it’s knowing when to do it. That timing part is exactly where the problem likes to hide.

By now you might be thinking, “so what’s the solution to it?”
Truth is, I don’t think there’s any perfect one.

Some days we’ll get it right. Some days we won’t. Sometimes we’ll react too fast, sometimes we’ll wish we spoke up earlier. It’s just part of life.
I don’t think life is waiting for us to become perfect before we made decisions. We’re already living in it, figuring things out as we go.
So when things don’t go the way I planned, I’m learning not to overthink it too much. Just take the lesson, adjust small, and move on.

Anyway… it’s been a while, but I’m writing again.

With Stories Always,

Yhem 💞