My 5 Top Soft Flexes

My 5 Top Soft Flexes

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Share five things you’re good at.

You know how we all have those things we’re good at, even if we don’t fully recognize them until someone points them out? The things that come naturally, without stress or overthinking? The strengths we carry with ease?

Well… these are mine. My big soft flexes.

1. Writing

One of my softest flexes is writing. Not just putting sentences together, but expressing feelings, capturing moments, and telling stories in a way that feels warm and relatable. Words sit comfortably with me. They flow, they settle, they connect. Writing is where I feel most like myself.

2. Cooking

Cooking is another strength I don’t take for granted. I don’t need stress or long recipes to make something comforting and delicious. Whether it’s a quick meal or something a little extra, I love cooking food that is satisfying. It’s one of my love language without needing many words.

3. Dressing Well

Looking good without forcing it? A soft flex for every woman.
I love putting outfits together weather its simple, elegant or  intentional. Dressing well is my subtle way of stepping into the day with confidence. It’s not about trends or labels; it’s about looking like the best version of myself with whatever I have.

4. Discerning Things

This one is quite powerful.
I’m good at sensing things,  people, energy, seasons or shifts long before they’re obvious. Discernment guides me, protects me, and helps me make decisions that keep my peace intact. It’s an inner compass I’ve learned to trust deeply over the years.

5. Being Thoughtful & Intentional

I move with intention. I think before I act, I care before I speak, and I give attention to the small things that matter. Being thoughtful isn’t something I try to do, that’s just me. Honestly, it’s one of my favorite subtle brags.

With Stories Always,

Yhem💞

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